Let's make your Oneness
Being a One is so much more than making sure all the picture frames are placed evenly, it's about following a moral compass so that each of us might live in a world filled with integrity, values and wholesomness.
No one sees how much you are controlling your very own temperament, behavior and even your thinking so that you can uphold the standard of decency you value for yourself and others.
You've tried to mold yourself into the good student, the good worker, the good partner, the good parent. That has brought all of your focus on making yourself "better" than you were but to what end?
That level of self-management is exhausting!
When's the last time you were spontaneous? When's the last time you had child-like fun? When's the last time you did something just for the pure joy of it?
You being on this site right now tells me something, it tells me you're ready to explore what else could be available to you.
I promise, you can be an Enneagram type One, follow your internal moral compass AND live a life filled with delight, enchantment and pleasure.
I see you dear One, overthinking on all the little things that you know don’t matter so much but you can’t seem to shake no matter how hard you try. You end up spinning and ruminating yourself into exhaustion.
I see you dear One looking to the rules of morality as a way to be certain in life to the point where it becomes suffocating. You hold yourself within a cage at the expense of living a more expansive delight-filled life.
I see you dear One unable to receive feedback because it hurts so much when you add it to the already relentless critic in your own mind. It’s as if someone is making deeper wounds to your already bare and exposed soul.
I see you dear One attaching your value and worthiness to what others might say about your integrity, morality and goodness, doing everything you can to be good and be seen as good by others but it’s never enough.
I see you dear One upset with yourself for being human, having moments of frustration and stuffing them down because to express negative emotions is not what good people do, only to find yourself explode when it becomes unbearable.
I know what it’s like to be you, I am you.
The potential that each of us has within us is tremendous. We Ones can do anything and with such integrity when we own who we are.
This is the work I invite you to do with me in my coaching program designed specifically for you.
Inner calm, flow, serenity, and delight are yours for the taking dear One.
You've tried countless times to implement what the online experts have told you to do to be more efficient, calmer around others, be the best partner and best parent - oh the list goes on.
That was always going to fall short because that was never the problem. You were never a problem to be fixed so let's stop creating more perfect boxes to squeeze yourself into.
Now is the best time to move your attention to what else is possible for you instead of looking for something else to fix about yourself because you are ready for true freedom and to let go of the shame of being human. You have:
Permission to let your authentic self shine
Permission to experience your life with delight
Permission to be joyous even when more could be done
"Working with Dom was so refreshing!
She is calm and thoughtful in her approach - always hearing me out and asking permission before we dove into each technique. She has such a beautiful way of using embodiment practices to guide you to your own answers in a safe space.
After working with Dom I have a quieter inner critic who understands it’s okay to do things differently than the ways I was taught. I learned how to interrupt old patterns that were running on default and look at the roles in my life in a new and powerful way.
If you’re looking to slow down and embrace more of who you are and what you want in life, I definitely recommend working with Dom!" - Melissa
Hi, I’m Dom, and just like you, I’m a One who has tried it all.
I’ve integrated all of my learnings from my master certification in mindset coaching, my certification in feminine embodiment coaching and the enneagram system to create something truly unique that takes ALL of you into account.
You will not be shamed for the programming that’s already in your brain. There is nothing broken.
Let’s get to know who you are, yes as a One, before the world told you who you needed to be to be loved and have a heck of a time doing it.
Your relentless inner critic is gripping on...
You are so tired of watching everyone else allow themselves fun and pleasure while you’re over here doing what needs to be done, what you think is the right thing to do.
You are feeling tense and super stressed out all of the time trying to manage everything around you, your kids, your partner and MOST of all YOU.
You have a burning desire to be satisfied, nay delighted by life, but can’t seem to allow yourself to enjoy what’s right in front of you.
Your One-ness is already such a gift, you are reliable, honest, principled, and fair. Even if you don’t think you embody enough of those qualities, you are intrinsically good.
You can be in integrity with yourself even when…
You're at the airport, your flight is delayed AND you still have the best time at the airport with the people you're with.
It's the end of the day, there are a few items left on your to-do list AND still you go to bed pleased and satisfied with yourself.
You notice that one messy spot in your office AND still you bask in the work you've done to get it to where it is now AND you exhale.
All of this with ease and joy, not forcing yourself because you think you have to!
All of this without compromising your desire to be in integrity with yourself and your values.
I'm all in!